Dating, Online Dating and Choosing and BEING the Right Committed Partner
Attraction based on commonalities is only a small part of what is attractive. Attraction cannot be predicted. It is more like an earthquake, we may never know until the attraction shows up when were are with that person. How are we supposed to select that perfect person? Studies show that what makes attraction happen is the experiences we share and how we behave around each other. Maybe be less tightly focused on commonalities but how we behave each other that creates an environment that supports the relationship you want. Studies show it is not as much about FINDING the right partner, but being the right partner.